Stop Saying “I’m Fine” – 5 Better Ways to Answer “How Are You?”

Stop Saying “I’m Fine” – 5 Better Ways to Answer “How Are You?”

When someone asks, “How are you?” do you automatically say:

“I’m fine, thank you. And you?”

That’s polite—but it sounds like something from an English textbook. In real American conversation, we say it differently.

Here are 5 better, more natural answers that will help you sound more confident and fluent.

✅ 1. “I’m good, thanks!”

Use it when: You’re feeling normal or positive
This is the most common answer in American English.

A: How are you?
B: I’m good, thanks! How about you?

✅ 2. “Pretty good.”

Use it when: You’re in a relaxed, casual mood
It’s friendly and natural.

A: How’s it going?
B: Pretty good! You?

✅ 3. “Not bad.”

Use it when: You feel okay, but not amazing
It’s a soft, casual response.

A: How are you today?
B: Not bad. Just taking it easy.

✅ 4. “Can’t complain.”

Use it when: Things are fine, and you don’t have any real problems
This is a very American way to say, “I’m okay!”

A: How’s everything going?
B: Can’t complain!

✅ 5. “I’ve been better.” (When you're not great)

Use it when: You’re tired, sick, or having a tough day
Still polite, but more honest.

A: How are you doing?
B: I’ve been better—but hanging in there.

🧠 Pro Tip:

In casual English, we don’t always give long answers. Short, natural replies are normal and often more comfortable.

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